My better half happens to be deceiving me a lot more than a year with me finding no clue about any of it !

My better half happens to be deceiving me a lot more than a year with me finding no clue about any of it !

Hi, recently had the revelation that my partner of 11 years had intercourse with a genuine player of a man having a pregnant gf some body we don’t like, this occurred she has repeatedly denied anything ever happened before we were together but.

The thing I find specially difficult to comprehend is that she ended up being completely sober and it also took place more often than once. Then i would find it easier to accept but the fact that she obviously fancied him troubles me greatly, added to this is that she stopped taking the pill three years ago and didn’t tell me for two years if it had been a drunken one off thing. We now have both experienced a great deal as she had been very I’ll into the very early many years of our relationship however when we look right back all I am able to see is just a relationship according to lies and just what a cup ive been, how do I make sure our shared experiences and everyday lives werent lies too? The lady we was thinking we dropped in love she did with wouldnt do what. I must say I desire method through this, I’ve attempted chatting however it leads to a disagreement and she insists i will simply stop great deal of thought! I will be upset as hell and i understand I’m crazy to keep, i possibly could disappear I still love her, does this sound salvageable as we have no children but?

I believe then more than likely, it will only get worse if she could admit why, be honest about how it made her feel, why she wouldn’t do something like that again, why it was wrong, and be honest about all the emotions associated with it, you should be able to move on in your relationship, but if she can’t face it, doesn’t accept why it poses a problem or threat to you rather. Continue reading «My better half happens to be deceiving me a lot more than a year with me finding no clue about any of it !»